Our brain is composed of atoms, and atoms follow the laws of quantum physics.
A question to ask is whether quantum theory can help us to understand consciousness. Scientists, still are debating in order to concretely answer this.
The subconscious mind: this is where the limitless power resides.
I am pretty confident that all of us have read or heard somewhere that humans only use a portion of their brains. Well, this is most of all, because of the subconscious mind. Just below the surface of our conscious mind there is a dormant volcano of powerful thought energy waiting to erupt. Think of it like an iceberg; you can only see the top but there is a great deal under that, and that is what makes it powerful.
Our so called “subconscious” does so much of the work of our thinking.
It serves as memory storage keeping there all of our memories, behaviors and emotions.
It filters all that data so that only the necessary information makes it to consciousness. This way our conscious mind does not have to deal with million info we are experiencing every waking second.
It is also our guidance system. It constantly monitors the information that is coming from the senses and identifies dangers and opportunities. Once this is done, it communicates that information to the conscious mind for action.
Scientists have confirmed that when the mind is daydreaming or “spacing out”, the silent parts of the brain are activated (the so called “Default Network”).
People who are able to effectively tune into their subconscious thoughts and channel positive messages are tapping into a more successful and happy life.
How to access and control our subconscious
Believe it or not, the most powerful tool is meditation. Meditation will help us to dive in and use all the stored info to our maximum advantage. When we meditate and we start controlling our breath, we get the control from the subconscious mind and give it to our conscious mind. We continue breathing deeper and deeper focusing on our senses and emotions. Then we stop to control it and voila, our subconscious starts doing it and we do not have to think about it anymore.
Meditation allows us to better train our mind making us more mindful and as a result reprogramming our thoughts to easily manifest whatever we desire.
Our thoughts really do create our reality and our mind plays the biggest role on that. The power of thought is a creative power. We can train and strengthen this power and use it to make changes in our life but also to influence other people’s minds.
Thoughts are like seeds: they have a natural tendency to grow. Therefore, when we feed our thoughts we are able to manifest.
These thoughts are filtered from our conscious mind to our subconscious mind, and as a result, it influences our actions accordingly.
The mind can be led to believe all sorts of things. Frequent visualization and actual feelings help in using the power of our thoughts.
Another interesting approach is the placebo effect that could be also used to our advantage. More on that to come on my blog –> Alice Where Is Wonderland
Essential oils are compounds that are extracted from benifical plants. They are obtained through distillation or by cold pressing. This results in aromotic compounds that give each essential oil its characteristic fragrance. However, only the oils obtained through distillation are considered to be the ‘real essential oils’. Essential oils are often used in aromatherapy and they are believed to have healing effects, open our chakra’s and to support our overall well-being.
How do you use essential oils?
You can use essential oils in several ways.
Inhale them directly out of the bottle
Steam them with a bowl of water
With a diffuser or humidifier
Dilute them with a carrier oil to apply them to your skin
Add a few drops with a carrier oil in your bath water
Use them with a carrier oil for massages
Add a few drops to your shampoo and conditioner
A few drops on your pillow case for a good night of sleep
Add them to foods for extra flavor
Not every essential oil is suited for all purpose mentioned above. Always check on the label how to use them properly.
How to choose good quality essential oils?
When you purchase essential oil in a store, please remember you are not testing perfume. Directly applying the undiluted oil to your skin might cause allergic reactions. And don’t hold the bottle too close when you want to smell the oil.
If a company sells all their oils for the same price, this is a red flag. The process of extracting the oils, isn’t the same for each plant. The price should be based on the amount of raw material is needed to produce is. Which results in different costs and prices. When the essential oils are prices the same, they’re probably either synthetic or of low quality.
Choose oils from companies that list the botanical name, the country of origin, distillation date on the label.
Buy only oils that are sold in dark glass bottles. Clear glass can spoil the oil.
Good quality oils are never the cheapest oils on the market. Don’t buy it if the price seems to be good to be true.
Buy essential oils from specialized companies.
Quality oils are tested for the gas chromatography and mass spectrometry tests GC/MS. Check of the seller provides batch-specific reports on their website.
Look for organic oils. Pollutants on plants can be more concentrated in the essential oil.
Check if the oil only contains compounds of the plant, and are not diluted with synthetic additives
Purchase from a brand with a good reputation.
Quality brands for essential oils
Below my top 4 of brands for essential oils. I listed them here because they are reputable and honest brands. All of their oils are well-tested and they work with the best, sustainable companies all over the world. I chose a few more expensive and a few cheaper brands, so there are options for every budget.
Mild side effects may include dizziness, muscle cramos, heartburn
It might make the skin more sensitive to the sun
Goes well with:
Restores emotional balance
Antiviral; flu, cold
Supports endocrine system
It might help to quit smoking. The respiratory system is stimulated in a way that mimics cigarette smoke
Aroma:Mild, woody & spicy
Precautions / Side Effects:
May cause irritation to the sensitive skin
During pregnancy the skin is more sensitve. So, it's advised to avoid during pregnancy
Too much can over-stimulate the kidney's
Goes well with:
Uses / health benefits:
Purifying and cleansing
Cooling and soothing
Reduce pain and stress
Smell / Aroma:
Rich, earthy and a bit woody evergreen scent
Precautions / Side effects:
Not for ingestion
May cause irritation
Goes well with:
Great for relaxation
Calming anxiety and stress
Skin healing effect
Sweet fruit, with a hint of herbal notes
Precautions / Side Effects:
Make sure you buy Blue Tansy essential oil. Don't buy oil from the Common Tansy. The Commin Tansy has high concentrations of thujone, which is a toxic enzyme. Make sure it says Tanacetum Annuum on the label, that's Blue Tansy.
Goes well with:
Uplifting and energizing
Helps with digestive problems
Halitosis (bad breath)
Sweet, spicy with wooden undertones
Precautions / Side Effects:
Can be irritating when you have sensitive skin
Pregnant and lactating women should not ingest cardamom oil
Goes well with:
Citrus oils, such as:
It reduces menstrual cramps
It stimulates and regulates the menstrual cycle
For relaxation and calmness
Reduces feelings of anxiety
Stimulates the libido
Soothes skin that is inflammated
Helps with pain in muscles and joints
Soft, sweet, nutty with a slightly floral scent
Precautions / Side Effects:
May increase estrogen, but not all studies agree on this
May not be appropriate for use for people who have low blood pressure
Goes well with:
Improves hair and skin quality
Helps relieve muscle spasm and cramps
Spicy, slightly musky fragrance
Precautions / Side Effects:
Don't take this oil orally, unless approved by your physician.
Avoid when pregant because of mild muscle stimulating effects.
Goes well with:
Helps reduce anxiety and stress
Helps reduce menstrual cramps and ease menopausal symptoms
Regulates and balances the menstrual cycle
Flu and colds
Reduce muscle spasms
It might help with drug withdrawal
A medium strength, fruity, grape and flowery-like aroma with a subtle vanilla note.
By setting the right intention every morning for the rest of your day, you can direct the course of your day in a positive direction. You can do this with the help of deliberate affirming positive thoughts. These affirmations are a positive reminder to stay positive throughout the day, no matter what is going on at this moment in your life. Affirmations help to stop the negative self-talk and remind you of the truth of life. They keep you out of the illusion of this physical reality we get caught up in so easily.
Affirmations are like magic to me. When I read them daily, I immediately feel a shift in my mood, in the things I attract, in my relationships and financially. The opposite also happens when I forget to read them and the negative thoughts feel free to take over again. This is why affirmations are extremely important to me. They raise my vibration and keep me positive. They bring hope and faith, that no matter what’s coming for you, you’ll be okay. They remind you of your inner strength, to trust your inner self and of the fact that everything that’s crossing your path today is nothing more than a new challenge that will help you grow.
What are Affirmation Cards for?
Affirmation cards also come with affirmations. The difference with just using affirmations and affirmation cards is that they can help you to answer your life questions. Each card has its own positive message for you. And by pulling a card every day, every week, month, year or actually, whenever you want, you can set your mind in a positive direction and get out of your thought patterns. Each message is meant to give you a new perspective on a certain situation in your life. Affirmation cards are a tool to practice self-care and to develop more gratitude for your life and for yourself.
You can use them to talk to when there is no one around and you need some good advise. A good set of affirmation cards is a good friend, that gives you positive advise whenever you need it. This is a friend that will never bring you down, but always chooses to be loving, understanding and to lift you up. A friend that shows you there is a silver lining in every situation. Just ask your question and the deck will help you to find the right answer.
Which affirmation deck should I choose?
There are tons of different affirmation decks available nowadays. They come in so many designs, shapes and with different affirmations and messages. Chosing the right affirmation deck is a very personal thing to do. You might need different affirmations, messages or artwork to still your mind with and fit your needs best than me. But either way, I’d like to share the sets with you that in my opinion come with great, bright designs and valuable affirmations, that I believe will be valuable for most of you.
How to use Affirmation Cards?
You can use them according to your needs. They don’t come with hard rules. Just ask a question, pull a card and see what message the Universe is giving you to work with today. Tip: Memorize the affirmation to repeat it to yourself throughout the day. You may pick a card as often as needed; once a day, once a week, once a month, or a couple of times a day, a few cards at the same time if you need more advise. And you can of course also use them to give advise to a friend or family member in need.
5 Beautiful Card Decks I recommend
I put together a list of the most beautifully illustrated decks I could find with the messages that I think will resonate with most of you. They’re all focussed on keeping a positive mindset and to see things from a new uplifting perspective. The decks that I chose raise your vibration and help you to get or stay in alignment with your source energy and the universe and are designed to brighten up your day. All of them deserve to be credited as the best Affirmation decks available today. So, here they come:
This set of 52 affirmation cards is written by the amazing Gabby Bernstein. She is one of my inpsirations, one of my greatest teachers that taught me so much about the law of attraction, manifesting and the importance of each of us in this world and how we are all connected. She is a bestselling author and together with this affirmation deck she recently published her new book Super Attractor.
The cards are made to inspire you to live a life filled with joy and start manifesting your dreams into reality. Each of the cards comes with a mantra to support and guide you. Pick a card and the Universe will answer.This deck connects you to the Universe and helps to live in alignment with your source energy.
This deck is authored by Louise Hay: the queen of affirmations. She is the author of one of my favorite books: You can heal your life. A book that changed my outlook on life completely in the most positive way. If there is any Affirmation deck that’s a must-have for every manifestor, than it’s Louise Hay’s deck, because manifesting and affirming starts with her. There are more affirmation decks by Louise Hay, but this one also comes with a beautiful, calm design.
This deck of 64 powerful affirmations and uplifting messages help you remember that you are safe and you are whole. Each card invites you to look within and become aware of the beautiful treasure that you are.
Lamare Affirmation Cards – 40-Piece Colorful Daily Positive Affirmations Set
This 40-piece card deck comes with beautifully designed colorful cards with positive affirmations you can use daily. The cards help you to be more relaxed and to meet your full potential. Negative thoughts that are holding you back have no place anymore in your life with this deck. Which results in you being able to live your life to its fullest potential. Reprogram your thinking, change your mindset and attract positivity in your life.
The ‘Happy Life’ Affirmation Cards is a card deck that consist of 54 bright cards with beautiful affirmations. And they come with an awesome wooden box, to make the cards easy to display in your sight during your day. They’re designed by the Australian company Bullet Planner, who also have many other self-love, self-help tools with designs I totally adore.
“Start your day with an inspiration and a smile.”
LSW Mind cards
Another deck that has a great design. I really love the minimalistic, bright, pastel colored design. It helps to feel calm, mindful and positive. These cards are designed to help you become more mindful of your thoughts and feelings and give you the tools needed to take back control of your happiness. They help to focus on being in the Now and. Just like the other decks you can pull a card every day and take the action stated on the card. This deck consists of 45 cards that come in 5 categories: kindness, ritual, gratitude, journal and reflection.
Hopefully I helped you on your quest to the affirmation deck that fits you best, or at least inspired you to find an affirmation deck to use in your daily life that will help you to manifest the every day life you desire.
Another book that changed my life: “You can heal your life”, written by Louise Hay; the Queen of positive affirmations. Recommended by a colleague a few years ago. And I’m so thankful for that, because I use many of Louise’s affirmations on a daily basis.
Louise Hay: The Queen of affirmations
Louise Hay was one of the founders of the self-help movement in the world. Was indeed, because unfortunately she is not with us anymore today. Or at least not physically, but through her legacy of knowledge she is still present on earth. In the 70’s, when this way of thinking was still very new, she already spoke about the connection between the body and the mind. First, she wrote the book: Heal your mind – a book I haven’t read just yet and which is high on my ‘to-read’-list – and later she wrote “You can heal your life”. A book that has been of so much value to me, it needs to have a seperate blog post I dedicate to it. So here we go!
You can heal your life
Louise Hay explains in “You can heal your life” how our thoughts and beliefs control our lives. She explains how self-love is the key towards healing. She believes you can create your own faith and that we are able to transform negatives situations into something positive, by working on your mindset. She believes diseases, mentally or physically, are connected to your state of mind. According to Louise many people are struggling with the belief they aren’t good enough and aren’t worthy of love, of having enough money and to live a carefree life. Most of us are raised with similar beliefs and we’re not even aware we’re constantly limiting ourselves and bring ourselves down with these beliefs. “I’m not worthy of..”, “Why is this always happening to me?”, “I can’t…”, “I’m not beautiful/slim/smart enough for…” etc. Louise Hay helps you to figure out where your negative thought patterns originated. Which will make you more conscious about the way you live your life and to change your outlook on life. This book teaches you to use deliberate positive thoughts, also known as affirmation. This will help you to feel happier with yourself and with your life.
I learned so much from this book. It made me more conscious about my own negative beliefs and thought patterns. And when you’re more aware of your thoughts and beliefs, it’s easier to intervene and transform the thought to a positive one. There are many examples of affirmations in this book for several subjects that you can use for the rest of your life. Your healing lies within your own hands, or actually… mind. This book thought me I’m not the victim of my own story. And that being a victim oftentimes is also a choice. This book helped me a lot on my way to a more positive and happier life. By focussing on affirmations daily, my mindset is going into the right direction a bit more day by day.
You can never lose anything by thinking positive, at most you will win something. So, this book is really worthwhile reading if you’d like to give a positive turn to your life. Of course, your life won’t be without problems after reading the book, but you learn to change the way you look at them. And overtime, you’ll see that a lot of problems that seem big today, will seem much smaller after some practice. We’ve been taught happiness is the absence of problems. Which means our search for happiness will always end in disappointment again. The key lies not within finding a life without struggles, but in finding a life where you are able to handle life’s struggles in a more positive way. And that’s what Louise taught me.
Hopefully you enjoyed my review and if I inspired you to read the book, this is where you can buy it:
How can you keep a positive vibration while dealing with negative people or situations?
Going through life with a positive mindset sometimes comes with quite a few challenges in certain situations. I noticed that maintaining your own boundaries can be very difficult when you’re trying to keep a positive mindset. And I’m not the only one struggling with this. Whenever I’m talking to someone who lives a Positive Thinking lifestyle as well, keeping boundaries without ending up with a negative vibration afterward, is something we all struggle with.
Not sticking up for yourself is equal to attracting more of the same
Because, when you’ve decided you’re going to think positive, always, from now on, it also feels like you’re can’t be unfriendly or self-centered ever again. You know that you create what you think and you don’t want to create more negative feelings or situations.
But sometimes we need to be tough on others to make sure they’re not overstepping the mark. Sometimes you need to draw the line to make sure their bad energy will not be passed on to you. Not sticking up for yourself will cause you to feel more agitated over time, which then becomes the vibration you’re sending out. This results in more similar situations entering your life that match this negative vibration. Which you don’t want, of course.
When you catch yourself complaining about someone, because this person is treating you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable and unhappy, you’re actually already allowing this person to take over your positive vibes. This person triggers negative feelings to take over the positive mindset you work so hard for.
Why the real message comes from your vibration and not so much from the words of the message itself
If you already talked to this person before, but nothing changed, this means that for some reason your message wasn’t clear enough for this person to really understand how much his behavior is bothering you. This happens when the vibration you sent out while delivering your message, didn’t match with what you were saying. In fact, you didn’t ask this person to treat you differently, but you sent out to the Universe with your negative vibration, you would be delighted to receive a little more of it.
You probably learned in life that when someone is crossing your boundaries, you should tell them their behavior is bothering you. And from now on, this person should change his behavior towards you. The thing is, he didn’t change. This person is still acting the same. You probably think, hey, this person just doesn’t want to listen to me. It’s his fault, he doesn’t want to change. This is out of my control.
But as I said before, what if your message wasn’t receive well, because the vibrations you were sending out while sending the message are the real message here instead of the message itself? The problem lies never with the other person, it’s a bug in the programming of our inner self. And the world around you picks up on that.
You can influence the situation by applying the Law of Attraction. You have way more influence on the situation than you think, believe me! Now, you can either choose to accept the situation and the negative energy that comes with it (which will put a block on your own manifesting process), or you can choose to take back control over your feelings and energy.
The Universe is sending you a gift in the form of a situation you can grow from
We are here to learn. And as I see it, there is always a lesson we’re working on and every lesson appears in your life as a challenging situation you need to learn from. Each lesson is a big opportunity to grow, but when you don’t take the opportunity to learn the lesson that the Universe is trying to teach you in the first place, this situation will appear again in your life, until you decide to change and solve the situation for good. Most people, including me, need to experience each lesson at least a few times, because we tend to look for the solution outside ourselves (our ego) instead of looking inwards, which is where the solution can be found, always.
If you’re reading this blog, maybe ‘setting boundaries and learning to take back control over your energy’ is what the Universe is trying to teach you right now. And with this blog, I hope to bring some new perspective on this challenging situation you’re experiencing in your life. Hopefully, this blog will help you to move forward in your learning process, so you’ll be able to grow and remove this energy blockage as soon as possible! Beause you need your vibrations to be positive. Otherwise, you won’t be able to manifest the life you do want.
We accept unacceptable behavior of others because ‘they don’t really mean it like that’, or because you’re afraid it will disturb the relationship, because it’s a family-thing or work-related and you see this person on a daily basis. But when this means that the other person can do whatever he wants, while the positive energy you’re meditating so hard for directly vanishes into thin air, you’re not heading in the right direction and you won’t be able to move forward.
The solution is hidden in your inner self and not in the other person
So, instead of putting the blame on the other, first you need to realize that something in your vibration is sending out the message that people are welcome to treat you like this. You allow it. That’s why it’s time to look inwards. Find out why you are sending out these vibrations. We really teach others how to treat us with our vibration and by the thoughts we have about ourselves. Ask yourself the question: is it possible this has something to do with my own insecurities and my feelings of self-worth? Somehow you feel it is your job to please others, even if you need to pay the price by feeling unhappy in exchange. Why? Why does pleasing the other have a priority on feeling good yourself? Take a good look inside and try to find out what’s causing this and work on this issue.
Of course you can address your ‘boundary crosser’, but if you don’t work on the reason why you attract this type of behavior towards you in the first place, you will come across similar situations again and again in the future.
There are other ways you can make sure others won’t cross your boundaries, without giving up on your positive energy.
Ways to maintain your boundaries and positive energy
Write down a list of affirmations that give you strength in this situation and that will shift your focus to what you do want to attract from this person. What should this relationship look like? How will this person treat you then? What does the world look like when your boundaries are respected.
A few suitable affirmations:
It’s okay to say no
I have the right to feel safe en respected
I’m responsible for my own happiness
The happiness of others is not my responsibility
I have the right to choose my own lifestyle
I have the right to express my opinions, needs and feelings
I give myself permission to be who I am
I am enough
I only attract people who respect me
I only attract loving relationships
I am a human being and my feelings are okay
Sometimes it can be necessary to talk to this person to make clear (once again) that his behavior makes you feel uncomfortable. Then, explain how you do want to be treated and put your focus during the conversation on the positive outcome. According to the Law of Attraction you have to express what you do want to receive instead of putting your focus on what you don’t want to attract. Then the good will follow.
Sometimes we are stuck in a web of loyalty, which makes us feel like we don’t have the right to set our own boundaries. But please bare in mind – especially when you’ve already expressed it several times and nothing changed – just as this person thinks he or she has the right to treat you like this, you also have the right to choose to not tolerate this any longer. Give yourself enough importance and don’t make yourself inferior to someone else.
I took my distance from people many times when I felt it was necessary. And in some cases this is what you need to do for yourself to be able to keep your positive energy. When someone causes you to feel unhappy on a regular basis and you never leave this person with a smile on your face, it’s a clear signal from your inner self. Taking distance is not selfish when the relationship only lowers your energy and takes you out of balance. I don’t mean you should distance yourself immediately when someone complained to you once, but when you notice this you leave this person more often with a lower vibration than the vibration you had before meeting this person, distance might be a healthy option to consider.
Negative emotions are signals that are trying to tell you that you need to change the situation. Take control of your own life and future experiences. Eventually, everything is a choice, even accepting unacceptable behavior of others. We tend to fall into victim-mode and in believing we don’t have a choice in situations like this, but you do have a choice. Search for the solution and you will find it!
According to the Law of Attraction we attract what we send out. That’s why it’s important to stop dwelling on negative thoughts and to go back to a higher vibration as soon as possible. Don’t dwell on anger and sadness because of what “the other person is doing to you”. It will only lead you to more similar situations. The Law of Attraction assumes that you desire more of the emotion you are experiencing. So, take the action steps that are needed and let go of the situation as soon as possible. Start doing the things that make you feel good.
You’re experience with the outer world, is a reflection of your inner world. The moment you stop believing it’s necessary to make compromises and to sacrifice yourself, it will immediately reflect in your physical experience in the outer world.
When you learn to set boundaries, manifesting becomes a lot easier as well. You’ll notice that similar situations don’t cross your path as often as before when sticking up for yourself is not an obstacle for you anymore. If you feel guilty for setting and maintaing your boundaries, this is connected to your inner belief that you’re only worthy as a person if you please other people in life. But you’re not responsible for the happiness of others. The moment you are able to let this limiting belief go, you’ll notice that this feelings of guilt slowly disappears. Without feelings of guilt, it’s a lot easier to stay in alignment with source. And when you’re in alignment, you won’t attract similar situations in the first place. You’ll automatically attract more loving relationships with people that treat you with love and respect.
During your yoga-class you probably heard your yoga teacher say which chakra will be opened in this class. Or which asana (yoga pose) helps to unblock a certain chakra. Can you feel the energy flowing?
But what are chakra’s exactly? And what is the meaning of the chakra’s? What does it mean when a chakra is blocked? And how can you unblock them? It is important to know the basics of the chakra’s, because with this knowledge you will always know how to balance yourself and how to keep yourself balanced. You will read the basics here!
Chakra’s: the energy portals of the soul
What are chakra’s and what is the meaning of the chakra’s?
Chakra’s are energy portals located on different points in your body. They are located from the lower part of your spine to the top of your head and they regulate the energy flow in your body. Chakra’s can be balanced, then you feel great. But when one or more chakra’s are out of balance, it means you have a blockage and the life energy that should be flowing freely is disturbed. These blockages will present themselves physically, mentally and spiritually. Every chakra is connected to a specific part of your body. Your body and mind communicate with you when a chakra is out of balance. By finding out which chakra is connected to the physical or mental complaints you’re suffering from, you will know which chakra is blocked. You now also know what you should work on to get yourself balanced again. Chakra-blockages can be removed with the different yoga asana’s (yoga poses), aromatherapy and stones/minerals.
There are many different chakra systems, but the system with 7 primary chakra’s is the one that is used the most, so I will use this system for this explanation about the chakra’s. I will explain for each of the chakra what it stands for, what it has an influence on, what happens when it’s blocked and which yoga poses or essential oils you can use to open it again.
Mooladhara means root in Sanskrit. It is your root chakra, your basis. It represents the physical, the earth, because it is the lowest chakra. This chakra touches the earth. This chakra is developed between the 1st and 6th year of life; the forming years. For a well developed Mooladhara chakra you need to develop a direct connection to the earth. Then it will bring safety and stability, financial securtiy and certainty.
Between the 1st and 6th year of life
Essential oil mix:
A mix of spikenard, frankincense, palo santo, vetiver
Pelvis, hemorrhoids, sciatica, problems with the hips, knees, ankles, feet, feelings of insecurity, self-pity and irresponsible behavior.
The sacral chakra. It stands for relations, creativity, sexuality and the discovery of freedom of choice. It’s when a person learns to listen to his survival instincts and to use the 5 senses. It’s also the phase when a person learns what is his and to defend that, his territory.
Is also called solar plexus. It is the stage of life where a person learn to stand up for himself, to put yourself first. You learn to take control of your own life and you will discover the ability to transform (from weak to strong, unhappy to happy, etc.)
Third eye chakra, this is the chakra where wisdom is developed, you know how to deal with different situations with calmness, the senses are strongly developed: hypersensitivity. This chakra brings healing energy and sometimes clairvoyance.
Between the 26th and 33d year of life
A mix of grapefruit, clary sage, sandalwood, spruce
Synchronicity signs: when ‘coincidences’ piling up on your way?
Are you also frequently experiencing that something happens in your life, that seems to be too coincidental to be just a coincidence? And do these moments keep piling up in certain periods of your life? Well, this happens to me a lot! Sometimes it feels like I am living in a very big puzzle and the pieces slowly keep coming my way. It feels like they’re all related in some weird way. You’re not the only one who is experiencing this and you are not losing your mind. It is experienced by many others and it even has its own name: synchronicity. All these moments are probably synchronicity signs. I like to see them as a big wink-wink from the Universe or your Inner Source to give you a signal that you are on the right path or to guide you in the right direction.
Synchronicity is an ever present reality for those who have eyes to see. ~ Carl Jung ~
My life really seems to be an accumulation of synchronicities. A friend of mine often tells me my life is like an unsolved mystery, which I am slowly unraveling. And it feels exactly like this for me. I’m always very curious what synchronicity signs will cross my path next 🙂 A small selection of the synchronicity signs I have experienced:
My first boyfriend and my husband share the same birthday.
On my late grandfather’s discovered I was pregnant. My due date: my dad’s birthday!
I’m born on Friday the 13th and my long-awaited desire to have children came true in the year I also had my birthday on Friday the 13th.
I receive amounts of money at exactly the right moments, that have very clear purposes.
My husband and I lived abroad for a while, where we befriended this amazing couple. In the days before we left, we tried to find a moment to say goodbye, but we didn’t manage to find a free spot in our agenda’s. So, we decided in app-conversation that there was not going to be a goodbye. One hour after this conversation we ran into them, in the middle of the city center of a very big city, when me and my husband were already heading back to our and on our way out of the city. They just got out of the bus and just arrived in the city They didn’t live close to the city centre, and they don’t come there very often either. But now ‘coincidentally’ they were there. We had a drink together and said our goodbye’s. 🙂
Before we were even thinking about moving abroad, images of this place popped up in my mind all the time.
When something special is taking place in my life, I oftentimes see the same numbers everywhere. Just before the birth of my saw the number 17 everywhere I looked. I still don’t know the exact meaning of it, but I think it was just a sign that everything was going to be okay.
For my job I was doing some product research for a client and the first product I sent him was a toy for babies I had never seen before. The day after my daughter was gifted the exact same toy.
Most of these examples are quite recent. They popped up in my mind now because most of them are still fresh in my memory, but the list of synchronicity signs is endless, really!
This is called synchronicity – a state in which you almost feel as if you are in a collaborative agreement with fate. ~ Wayne Dyer ~
Carl Jung came up with the definition ‘synchronicity’
Psychiatrist and psychologist Carl Jung also knew this phenomenon and named it synchronicity in 1930. He introduced the definition of the term when he determined that the principle of causality was insufficient to explain certain remarkable events. He frequently found remarkable parallels in the dreams, pathologies, and experiences of his patients. Jung believed that synchronicities mirror deep psychological processes, send messages and give our lives meaning and direction.
Synchronicity means simultaneity. When two or more events occur approximately around the same time in a way that they have a meaningful connection to the person who is experiencing it, without it being causal. You experience it as more than just a coincidence because the two events don’t have anything to do with each other. They are small wonders that point to the existence of a bigger one.
The intellect has little to do on the road to discovery. There comes a leap in consciousness, call it intuition or what you will, the solution comes to you and you don’t know how or why. – Albert Einstein
How do you recognize synchronicity signs?
We are often guided by our beliefs, religion, family, culture and other external factors. And we rather act on them instead of opening up to the signs of our Inner Source. Because a lot of our beliefs are actually blocking the signs. Maybe you receive sign after sign, but you’re so incredibly distracted, you can’t recognize them when they appear. But when you allow them into your life, you’ll find yourself on a magical path and you start to see the synchronicity signs everywhere. So, how can you start recognizing these signs?
Synchronicity sends you messages through your intuition and emotions. For example: you see someone who reminds you of someone else, you see an animal during a walk that has a special meaning to you. Or the same numbers or images keep appearing, you hear the same song everytime you turn the radio on, you think about something that actually happens later, being at the right place at the right time, things from your dreams suddenly cross your path in reality, you hear people talking about a subject that is very important to you, matching birth dates of friends, partners and family… well, you get it, right?
Do you experience this too? Then my advice to you is to listen to them, give the signs attention because they can guide you to more. Because a path that is connected to synchronicity has the higher potential to help us move forward in life.
Don’t forget that there are also synchronicity signs in our challenges. Even challenges cross your path with a reason and they are part of the synchronicity. So be aware of the signs you receive when it comes to the difficult situations in life. It will help you to accept the situation as it is and they will help you to find your way out of them.
Open yourself up to synchronicity signs with these tips:
A clear mind helps, make sure you’re not distracted by thoughts, worries and doubts
Ask a question about your life and look where your attention is drawn to later
Follow the signs you get, they will lead you to the next one
Try to remember the messages you receive in your dreams
Use oracle or tarot cards
Let the Universe know you are ready to receive the signs
Keep a synchronicity journal and write down every sign you received + write down what you think that might be the meaning of this sign. After a while you start to see patterns
Listen to your body
Use affirmations or prayers
And: don’t give up!
The Law of Attraction and Synchronicity
How is the Law of Attraction connected to synchronicity? If you apply the law of attraction to your life, you try to manifest that what you’re focussing on. When your manifestation becomes reality, this is synchronicity too. But synchronicity is mostly a good helper when you’re using the law of attraction. The signs remind you that your manifestation is on its way. When you apply the law of attraction your desire will not manifest itself immediately. There is some time in between. And during that time, those signs will come to you to tell you: Hang in there! You placed your order and your manifestation is on its way!
How did you experience synchronicity in your life? Let me know in the comments below!
As promised I’m sharing everything on my blog that has helped me a lot when it comes to dealing with my anxiety and depression. The Law of Attraction and a positive mindset helped me a lot to cope. But if only I knew before there are motivation, depression and tools. So when I find new awesome tools that can really make a difference, I must share them with you too. I found this really amazing website with many beautiful, colorful Law of Attraction Depression and Anxiety tools that can really help you organize your mind, reflect and feel more in peace with yourself. Tools like these make me really happy. 🙂
The website I’m talking about is: Blessing Manifesting. The creative mind behind this blogsite/shop is a fellow blogster, who just like me and maybe you dealt with depression and anxiety. We are almost the same age, we are both introverted, cat-ladies and bi-racial. So I do feel a connection with her! And as it is my passion to help others on their path of positivity, spirituality and self-love, so is it her passion as well! We both found a way to step out of our negativity spiral and to really make something beautiful out of life. So, if I choose someone to write a blogpost about, it must be her!
In the past, I made quite some visits to therapists in all different shapes and sizes to help me to step out of my depressions and anxiety. And I really don’t want to claim that it’s not working for others, I can say for me it wasn’t the right solution to stop this negative thinking spiral. In fact, for me, the constant digging in my past – the how-sad-for-you-that-you-needed-to-go-through-all-that stuff… worked extremely counterproductive. Why? Because I believe you need to keep your focus on the things you will do today to make life look even better tomorrow instead of focussing on everything that already happened, which you can’t change anyway! Looking back, I really understand now why this didn’t bring me further in life.
Don’t get me wrong, please don’t quit your therapy sessions because of me, because there are probably a lot of people who actually really do benefit from it. And sometimes it can actually be necessary to dig in the past before you can start to make steps forward again. And combining your therapy sessions with a new positive mindset, never harmed anyone before I guess.:)
Staying focussed on the things in life I do want to attract is what did help me to move forward and grow. Instead of reminding myself about the things I didn’t want to attract again in life, I started to apply the Law of Attraction by reminding myself of the things I really wanted to attract in life. And to make it easier I use tools to keep myself on track. I use a gratefulness diary, I read my affirmations every day and I look at my vision board to keep my goals and desires within my focus. So by being proactive every day, which means I agreed with myself to day something every single day that will make my future-self happy. To keep yourself accountable Dominee’s Blessing Manifesting Law of Attraction Planner tools are the way to go. She made cute-looking, super handy, cool, downloadable and printable tools that will help you to keep on track for sure! I will mention my personal favorites below:
The best motivation, depression and anxiety tools:
A book full of suggestions to do some self-care. It includes a planner from January til December and you can stuff it it with literally anything that is concerning your personal growth. It helps you to make yourself aware of all your thoughts so you can transform to self-love. This planner is also used a lot by personal coaches by the way!
So, take a look on her website and get inspired! There are many more fun tools, such as a worksheet for heartbreak, for fitness and for sobriety. And everything doesn’t just look beautiful, it’s also really affordable too! Enjoy and lots fun manifesting!
In one of my previous posts I already talked about the Law of Attraction and the reasons why I’m hooked. The Law of Attraction works 100%… need to do a little work for it to make it work. 🙂 This means that you need to work on keeping your consciousness high and maintain your awareness of your positive thinking. You need to stay focused the goal and you need to keep on transforming your negative thoughts into positive ones. One of the best tools I like to use to keep myself accountable is a Motivational / Law of Attraction planner. You can keep track of all your desires, goals and thoughts in these planners and in most of them, you can make your own personal vision board. Ideal, right! But what is the Law of Attraction again and which planner is the best Law of Attraction planner? Read all about it in this blog!
Allow me to kick-start your memory first… and in case you don’t have any knowledge about the Law of Attraction yet; a short introduction:
The Law of Attraction is a universal law. The theory behind it is the thought that we (can) create our own reality. According to this law we attract the things we want, and we also attract the things we don’t want. We attract everything through our thoughts and emotions. When you’re thinking about your positive desires, you can manifest them. But when your negative thoughts take over, they will eventually be manifested in your reality as well. Are you scared of high bills? Then they will be delivered at your doorstep. Do you want to lose weight, but are you mostly thinking about the weight that keeps coming and about the diets that you keep trying, but they’re all too hard? Are you telling yourself you’re not happy with yourself when you look into the mirror? Then this is exactly what you will attract!
Fortunately, the opposite works as well! Are you expecting a big amount of money being transferred to your bank account that’s coming from an unexpected source? Then this is what you will manifest. Can you shift your focus to the things you like about yourself when you’re looking in the mirror? Then this beauty is on its way to manifest itself in your new reality.
When we have limiting beliefs, we will also attract a life that is limited. This is the exact reason why you need to keep a positive mindset, without those limiting beliefs. You need to work on your awareness when it comes to your limiting thoughts every day. Only then they will eventually disappear (together with the corresponding manifestations) and will the positive thoughts with your new belief system take root in your mind to create the reality you have in mind.
Everything is possible, the sky is the limit! But I know from my personal experience, that you fall back to your old thought patterns so fast in daily life. That you are so easily drawn back into what you think is ‘reality’. And when you’re not on the right frequency anymore and you actually kind of forget the Law of Attraction exists. This is where the Law of Attraction planner comes at play. It’ll help you to make your goals and wishes more specific. And after that the planner help you to work on them every day with full consciousness. Daily consciousness is really a necessity if you want to make the Law of Attraction succeed in your life.
But which Law of Attraction planner should you buy? I did some research and these are the planners I like the most!
With this 100% eco-friendly Law of Attraction planner, you can go in all directions. It has afoldable vision board, which makes you able to focus on all your desires and to visualize them at a glance. The planner contains a gratitude journal, habit trackers, to-do lists, a weekly and a monthly planner, mind maps, reflection pages, feel-good lists, and affirmations. In short, all self-awareness tools packed in one planner! This planner is also suitable for vegans since it’s made of animal-friendly PU leather and certified FSC paper. It is undated, so you can start whenever you want. And another fun detail: if you use heat-sensitive pens, you can erase your writings later and start all over again. 🙂 It comes in the colors black and rose.
This daily planner has a lot in common with the weekly/monthly planner I mentioned above. They have the same design and the same tools that will help you to work towards the best version of yourself. Such as; the foldable vision board, the morning- and evening questions, mind maps, reflection pages, the gratitude journal, the to-do lists and much more. The difference is mainly in the planner’s size. This A5 sized planner is smaller than the B5 sized weekly/daily planner. So, in case you’re traveling a lot, this one might be easier to carry around with you. This planner is also 100% eco-friendly and is suitable for vegans. It has a calendar for 2019, 2020, 2021 and 2022 and it’s undated. In conclusion: the ideal planner to give your mind a reset and to do your daily planning and reflection. It’s available in the colors rose and turquoise.
3. Law of Attraction Goal Planner
To become a real master in the Law of Attraction, this is the Law of Attraction planner you need. This will only take you 30 days. The planner has room for your daily planning and reflection, goal setting and prioritizing and mind mapping. You will also find an 8-step plan, a vision board en room to develop your ideas further. This Law of Attraction planner is doing its job so well because you can reprogram your subconscious in just 30 days according to NASA. Skipping a day means you need to start all over again at day 1. So this Law of Attraction planner gives you a good grip if you want to see real and permanent changes. In contrast with other motivational planners, you are really able to keep track of your progress during the process. It gives insight on what’s really going on in your mind and it helps you to step out of negative thinking patterns.
4. The Five Minute Journal
Are endless writing sessions not your thing? Or you actually don’t have enough time to keep track of a journal? With this planner you can boost your feeling of happiness by investing just 5 minutes per day. You briefly keep track of priorities daily for that particular day and you keep your consciousness high through the use of daily affirmations and reading quotes. At the end of the day you fill out the ‘end of the day reflection’. In my opinion, the other planners are really nice, but in reality, you don’t really need more than 5 minutes a day to stay in alignment and keep your consciousness high. Deliberately creating of a few positive thoughts a day, already puts you into the right frequency. You can use this planner over the course of 6 months.
5. The 555 Manifesting Challenge
The 555 manifesting challenge: This might actually be my favorite one! This planner uses a different approach and at the same time uses the Law of Attraction/New Thought. You are supposed to choose what you would like to manifest within 5 days by writing the same affirmation 55 times in this journal. And this you’ll repeat for 5 days. It sounds a bit like detention, but in fact, it’s quite logical this approach works. By repeating the same thought over and over again, you are programming this thought in your subconsciousness. And as a result this thought eventually will become your truth. In my view, every Law of Attraction fan should own this book in addition to one of the other Law of Attraction planners. This will allow you to add more power to the Law of Attraction.
This cute little book has 150 pages for you to write. This means there are 11 rounds of 5-day manifestations!
6. Tools4wisdom planner
And the last planner that I’m very excited about; the Tools4wisdom planner. It promises to keep you motivated, even when things are not going your way. And if one thing is important to keep you on the path of the right alignment, it is to keep your spirit high when life gets a little tough. And at the same time, this is the hardest and it’s where the Law of Attraction mostly fails. This planner shifts your focus from being reactive to proactive. You will work on your goals by breaking them down from big to small. From annual goals to daily goals, so that you will remain with a lot of doable small micro-steps. It immediately makes your goals look a lot smaller, which as a result makes it easier for you to keep believing in them. You’re taking it step by step.
What’s appealing me the most is the shift from being reactive to being pro-active. Because when you become pro-active, you immediately learn that life doesn’t just happen to you. In fact, you are capable to control your life yourself. You learn to take small actions every day and to work towards your desired outcome bit by bit. This has been the way I managed to step out of my anxiety/depression. I always felt so overwhelmed by my goals that they seemed to be not feasible in advance. And I believed that life comes as it comes, very random. Eventually, I decided to take a small action every day that my future self would thank me for in 5 years. Sometimes the smallest actions can already make a change because they give you the sense of being in control again (which is very important if you’re dealing with anxiety or going through a depression). Cleaning the house, make myself a healthy dinner, send that one letter, sign up for a course, study one chapter… This mentality eventually resulted in the manifestation of my biggest desires.
Hopefully I’ve been of good help in your search for the planner that suits you the most. Which one is your favorite? Let me know in the comments below. 🙂
Hey you, thank you for checking out my blog about the law of attraction and anything that might help you to stay aligned! 🙂
More than 10 years ago, I came across a book in the bookstore called The Secret. Today, most of you probably know this book, but then it was completely new. At that moment, the Law of attraction did its job as described. I was drawn to it, I was guided to it. I bought the book and read it in one breath. Afterward, I was totally convinced that this was it! This was what I was looking for my whole life!
I put it to the test a couple of times. And indeed, it really did seem to work. What I didn’t understand back then was the presence of this huge pile of limiting thoughts, residing in the back of my mind. As a result, I fell off the wagon, again and again. ‘Bad’ things were happening and the negative thoughts came back; “See, this is nonsense, life doesn’t really work like this. It can’t be that easy, really! You were just lucky a couple of times. See how you still haven’t manifested the amount of money you asked for! You’re not even close, etc.” Many of you have probably already been down this road as well.
I fell off track so bad, that it actually ended in depression, burn-out and feeling totally unhappy with my life. Things seemed to just randomly happen to me, negative things.. And I completely forgot about The Secret and the Law of Attraction. It was still there, somewhere in the back of my mind. But the negative-thinking-monster took over my mind.
From nothing to everything!
A couple of years ago I signed up for a Kabbalah course. A lot of their teachings were actually about the power of thoughts and about deliberately creating. Slowly it got me back on track. Since then a lot of good things changed in my life. First of all, I quit my job and sold my house. Then I lived abroad for over 6 months and actually did many other things that I’ve always dreamed about. I started to learn more about the law of attraction through podcasts and books and via some amazing people I met along the road.
And the list continues; I married the love of my life and I am pregnant. I got my yoga teacher degree and I opened up my own freelance business. All these life changes, are now part of my day-to-day life. Changes that I once only dreamed about and seemed so far out of reach. They somehow became reality to me.
You can learn from my mistakes!
As you can see, my life completely turned around! And this is why I would like to share my knowledge and reviews with you. So you don’t need to go through 10 miserable, confusing years too before you will figure this good shit out. Consequently, this blog about the law of attraction will hopefully also help with my own accountability. Because in everyday life you naturally get caught up in this illusionary world. And then you forget to appreciate the things you’ve manifested and to show gratitude for them. And you forget how much lies within your own control, how you attract even the smallest details of your life.
Manifest your dreams in 6 steps
If you are looking to expand your knowledge about the law of attraction, I highly recommend you to read Abraham Hicks’ books and to start working with a Law of Attraction / motivational planner. They have been really helpful for me. By reading a bit from their books every day I am able to keep my consciousness high.
Please tell me more about your experiences with the law of attraction, source, chakra’s, alignment, yoga, positive thinking or anything else you might think of!
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I’m looking for a guest blogger who can provide me with new, original, interesting content for inhalethegoodshit.com.Will you help me with spreading more light and positivity in the world? You can choose the subject if you like, but if you don’t know what to write about, I can provide you with some suggestions. I’m looking for at least 500-word posts (longer is great if it’s possible).
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Now I became a mother Iam so much looking forward to do yoga practices with my little princess. But how can you make yoga practice interesting and fun for your little one? How to let your child enjoy the advantages of yoga and mindfulness without the practice become dull? I searched the internet for the coolest books, yoga mats and games that will make teaching yoga to kids super fun and easy. Your child is going to love yoga, just like you when you use these items and tips!
The benefits of teaching yoga to kids
But why is it so important for your child to practice yoga and mindfulness?
First of all, you’ll connect and bond when you’re practicing yoga and mindfulness together with your child. You’ll enjoy some quality time together wherein you can just have fun and focus on each other. It’s a healthy and playful way to connect! Yoga also helps your child to establish positive habits in his/her life. Your child will gain strength, get a better coordination and more flexibility. And mentally you’re teaching your child to be aware of his/her body and to be self-confident. Yoga and mindfulness can help your child to cope better with anxiety and stress and to feel more inner peace. So, it improves your child’s well-being in any possible way, physically and emotionally. In my opinion, yoga should be integrated into the basic education of every child and it should be taught in every school. Especially in the world we live in today, which is full of stimuli every day and all day long. Many children (and adults) are really affected by that and don’t know how to distance themselves from all these stimulations. This is where yoga and mindfulness come into play. Because yoga and mindfulness actually can help your child to create some peace and quiet, which is very hard to find elsewhere.
Only benefits! But how can you make yoga and mindfulness fun for your child, without your child getting bored at point? Because we all know how fast children can be distracted, get bored and lose their focus. Luckily, there are many super fun products which you can use to let your child learn yoga and mindfulness in a playful way. I found children’s yoga mats, books, and games for you. Here are the ones I like the most:
These awesome books with beautiful illustrations pair the letters of the alphabet with words that promote dreams and healthy living. In ABC Yoga For Me you teach your child the ABC while you’re also introducing them to many different animals and yoga poses for children. All the asana’s (yoga poses) are renamed, so children can remember them more easily. And in ABC Mindful Me you teach your child the concepts of mindfulness in a playful way, while you’re also teaching the ABC. The books encourage your child to move and learn at the same time!
The Itsy Bitsy series are a great way to bond with your baby or toddler and improve their health at the same time. The poses in the books will help your child to sleep better and feel happier. The author is a certified yoga instructor in yoga and she developed 70 yoga postures + 35 series for babies and more than 50 poses for older children (18 months – 5 years), which you can enjoy together. Ages 0 – 2 can use the baby version of the book and the Toddler / Pre-schooler book is for the ages 18 months up to 5 years old.
Yoga will help babies to sleep better, get relief from gas pains and colic, have a stronger immune system and learn to relax. And for the moments your baby is upset there are special Magic Poses that will help to calm down your baby almost instantly!
And for your 18-month old to 5-year-old, yoga will help your child to sleep better and longer, increase coordination, listen better, have fewer tantrums, a higher self-esteem, and easier relaxation.
This book prepares your child for sleep in a playful way. This beautifully illustrated book tells the story of the world that is ending the day and closing down for the night, while teaching your child a flow of yoga postures which are inspired by nature, such as Sun Breath & Butterfly. You can repeat the sequence every night before going to bed. It supports better sleep and relaxing the body and mind.
Teach your child all the yoga poses with this card deck. How I love the illustrations of this one!
“Yoga Pretzels is a fantastic way of spending quality time with my kids. Together, we exercise our bodies and minds leaving us feeling energized and refreshed! I’d highly recommend it to anyone with children.” Catherine Zeta-Jones
Another card now for Mindfulness. It includes 50 cards with games, visualizations, and exercises. This card deck helps your child to feel grounded, improve his/her focus, practice kindness and relax in a fun way. For the ages of 4 and up.
Do you know other fun products for teaching yoga to kids? Please let me know in the comments below!
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